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So you’ve been together for what feels like an eternity and the sex that was once new and fun and exciting has suddenly become, well….not so much anymore. Here’s our top five picks for ways that your can rev-up your sex life and never look back.<\/p>\n

Touch yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you haven’t already started to experiment with touching yourself during sex, there is no better time to start than now. Not only does it feel amazing to experience both clitoral stimulation and penetration at once, but it will also drive him crazy (and if he doesn’t like it then he is an immature little boy and you need to go find yourself a man lady!)’<\/p>\n

Make a sex tape<\/strong><\/p>\n

Oh come on now, don’t pretend like you’ve never<\/em> thought about it. If you’re in a long-term relationship that you can seriously see going for the long haul, this is one of the sexiest ways you can boost your sex life. Better yet, schedule yourself in for a few practices runs in the lead-up to the big filming day!<\/p>\n

Workout<\/strong><\/p>\n

Finding your sex life lagging because you just don’t seem to have the stamina to keep up with your partner? Sounds like its time to whip that butt into shape, girl! Even an easy 30-45 minutes of cardio, three times a week will greatly improve your endurance and energy to help you go that extra mile both in and out of the sack.<\/p>\n

Sext<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t let yourself believe that sexting is just for those early months of a relationship. If you want to keep your sex life steamy, one of the best ways to do it is by learning the art of anticipation and the easiest way to do that is by sending your guys steamy texts all day long. This will pay off ten-fold by the time you see him that night. Trust us.<\/p>\n

Make the most of mirrors<\/strong><\/p>\n

Make it your mission to have sex in front of every mirror you have in your house, no matter how big or too small. Not only is it crazy sex to watch but it can also be an incredible bonding experience for couples who are looking to regain their intimacy but watching the way they react to one another more closely.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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